I was doing weights when I met my wife 20 years ago and still am.
Now I am qute big, 100k, she is OK with it.
Sadly, she doen't train, but lives very clean and is healthy. I have tried to get her going a few times, but she always quits.
The non-smoking, hardly drinking, salad eating aspects of the game meet her approval. She says I am good looking, but I think she is just being kind....