Yeah all excellent points
But it would generally be better advice and more straightforward to say:
"Umm... buddy, you are using too much weight, reduce them and you'll be able to avoid those joint problems you complain about"
rather than say:
"Well, that's because you need to keep proper form all the time." To which he'd probably ask,
"But if the weight is so heavy and it seems impossible to always maintain perfect form what the heck should I do?". To which we would say something like
"Well, your poor form, from my observation, is because you are struggling with the weight you are using. It is simply too much, so you end up having to sacrifice your form to complete your sets, so your joints take so much punishment that they really could have avoided" After that he'll probably come to the conclusion himself and blurt out
"Oh, so I can simply reduce the weight, anyway sufficient deconditoning would always mean even lighter weights can induce hypertrophy, and by reducing the weight and not going crazy by choosing super heavy weights, I'll be better able to keep proper form all throughout, thanks!" .
Now, especially for newbies or anybody who might just be confused about it, the easier way would have been to simply say in the first place
"Umm... buddy, you are using too much weight, reduce them and you'll be able to avoid those joint problems you complain about", so then the guy would immediately say
"Oh, okie then, I'll reduce the weights" , and we solve the problem much faster and less confusing, since our point was just that, not really academic discourse about the matter.
Of course, the weakness of this argument is that I assume form is not the issue (which I always assume because assuming the opposite seems, to me, kinda like looking down on his skills) until the point is reached that his ego forces him to lift too much weight.
Also, had the scenario been different, and the direct question was "What really causes joint injuries?", then it would have been necessary to go through the more detailed expanded explanation, and anything less would simply be shameful.
Just my honest opinions of course, and nobody should take any of them as scientific laws
-JV