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(etothepii @ Apr. 19 2007,10:42)</div><div id="QUOTEHEAD">QUOTE</div><div id="QUOTE">One plus side: My wife has always supported me as I obsess on eating and working out, but has kept all opinions and judgements to herself. She cares 0% about appearance, and only sees the good (or bad) that is within people. She rarely comments on my physique. Well, during our recent mini vacation, she got very serious with me, looked right in my eyes and told me that I look great. That was awesome!</div>
That is GREAT, etothepii, kudos!!!
Call me shallow, but I think physical attractiveness is important in a marraige as much as communication and honesty.
One reason I like working out is that I can turn my wife on just by walking around shirtless....
(and she feels safe walking the streets with a 'big, strong guy' by her side.) I am just a simple, primitive caveman at heart!