I know what you mean about home, I just had an aunt and uncle out here visiting for 6 weeks form Illinois who would love to move here but just can’t move away from their families. My mother an one of my cousins out of a very large family are the only two who moved away otherwise they all still live in about a 20-30 miles from each other.
I’m sure there are many systems out there that would fit the needs you describe but I can vouch for the Westside Barbell Conjugate Method for being great at building power, strength, mass and endurance all at the same time. The way it is designed any progressive loading is kept short so if you get sick there is no issue of do I start a new cycle or pick up where I left off, you always just pick up where you left off and just let your body tell you how much you can do on a given day.
There are also variations of the system designed more toward building strength and/or mass and endurance without the powerlifting aspect. These usually have you skipping the speed work by substituting more repetition work or even switching the max effort work from 1RM maxes to 3-5RM maxes to build more mass than power.
Here is a description of how to set up the workouts for the vanilla system, just scroll down to the section called “The Westside Barbell Conjugate Method: A Guide to Accessory Work.” You can also check for variants like Westside for skinny bastards, Westside for body builders to see what changes others have made to emphasize things other than powerlifting.
http://www.syattfitness.com/category/westside-barbell/
One think I’ve liked about doing this so far is that in some cases I don’t even decide what exercises I’m going to do until just before I start my workout. Also since you are doing a max attempt twice a week and always trying to improve the weight or reps on almost every exercise you always know if you are gaining or losing strength and can adjust your routine accordingly.
Beware that most people say and I’m also finding out it can take months, up to 10, to get this system down because you need to learn weight or rep maxes on so many different exercises and if powerlifting which of those exercises translate over to your main lifts.
Cheers,
Dean